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My son was born in 1973...and I think he always had sleep apnea to some degree..but we didn't know how to recognize it..and doctors didn't know anything about it either..By the time he was 22 yrs old.. it was horrible..He had sleep apnea and later reading for all information I could find on it...was a " swimmer" too. That is where he would sleep on his stomach..kick his feet..with his face down in his pillow..then raise his head to gasp for air and go down again I imagine this was RLS or lack of oxygen causing the kicking like a swimmer. I would send him to the ER and they would send him home with antibiotics..the last time I sent him to the ER all the nurses were saying.. " he has sleep apnea really BAD, doesn't he"..He couldn't even stay awake while he was in the ER....the nurses actually moved his bed out by their station while he was there to keep a closer eye on him and his breathing. NO ONE said.. this young man is in grave danger.. .. we are KEEPING him and putting him thru a sleep study and will try to start treatment from there.. EVERYTIME I sent him to the ER I would sit at home praying.. " please let some doctor see how bad he is doing and try and help him"..His wife would go with him. The last trip they set up a referral to a heart doctor and sent him home with antibiotics again. The next morning we awoke to screaming ...and he had died face down in his pillow. His weight DOUBLED in that final 6 months....they had to fit him in a special coffin and they never could ease him into it where he looked even remotely " natural". I had the coffin closed..instructed the funeral home NOT to open it again. The funeral home director told me that almost EVERY person that had died of sleep apnea had become morbidly obese in a very short period of time. I was told that his heart was 3 times the size it should be and that the heart attack was what killed him.. I think the Sleep Apnea killed him. Now days I just casually mention to a Dr in the clinic that I think I might have sleep apnea..and I am thrown into a sleep study within a day. Sleep Apnea CAN kill you.. and IF you do NOT get some kind of help WILL kill you. My son was only 22 yrs old..he left this world with an 18 month old daughter and his life had JUST BEGUN...and it was over. Don't EVEN ask me how I feel or what I think about every night when I put my CPAP mask on faithfully.........
VERY good question, Bob.
I believe that it would be a rare thing indeed for "sleep apnea" to be written down as the cause of death. I believe there are several reasons for that. For one thing, the meaning of the word "apnea" is literally "breathing stopped." Everyone who dies stops breathing, so the word "apnea" would generally look pretty silly if it was listed as a cause of death, unless the person was literally suffocated by someone else, since it is obvious information, in a sense. It would be tantamount to writing on the death certificate that the cause of death was that the person ceased to continue being alive.
When sleep apnea causes the thing that causes a death, it is generally the things that sleep apnea caused that gets written on the death certificate as the cause of death instead of the sleep apnea that caused the condition that caused the death. Let's take one obvious example: If a person driving alone falls asleep at the wheel and dies in a terrible car crash, "sleep," alone, would not likely be listed as the cause of death (even if it is assumed that is what happened). And it is just as unlikely that "sleep apnea" would be written either, even if that was ultimately why the person was tired and sleepy enough to fall asleep behind the wheel. It is much the same with diseases that result from bad breathing during sleep.
Any human failing to get sufficient air, nutrition, water, or sleep is risking death from a multitude of "causes." That is why breathing, eating, drinking, and sleeping must be taken seriously by anyone who takes life seriously, regardless of what may or may not get written on a piece of paper when someone leaves us.
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